You think you know everything about a guy, and then one day he turns out exactly the opposite. Then you lay down that mattress and think back how much you have thought that he’s the one when he’s definitely not.

We all have our definition of “the one”. A tall lean guy, a good looking gentleman or someone who gives you flowers and chocolates and remembers your birthday, valentines, anniversary or even the birthday of your dog.

But then things turned out wrong and the next thing you knew, you broke up— you’re back to being an all-by-myself again waiting for the right guy to come knocking down your doorstep telling you “Hi! I’m the one!”

How to Know if He’s the One?

With all those romantic stories we’ve seen on Facebook and curated couple photos on Instagram, it becomes so harder for us to know how to really define “the one”.

You have so many questions, and you just don’t know where and when to star. Well, here are a few checklists you should know.

1. You share the same value

It is so amazing to finally found someone who shares the same value as you. When you do you know that you both are going to make a good understanding of everything— that at one point you will meet at one decision because you both have agreed on it.

2. He is honest

Like about everything. If he is someone who never tells lies, except when he’s sabotaging a surprise for you, then that guy is the one. You can even do a good lie detector test to see if he’s lying or not, or maybe confirm a few things if you’d like.

3. He means everything he said

It is so hard to find someone who means everything he said. When he says he’s going to pick you up by 9, he’ll be there even before you know it. When he said he wanted to make it up to you, he will in 101% make-up points. I mean, guys like these are men who will do everything for you— that my girl is someone you should find.

4. ‘I love you’ isn’t just a sweet thing

Saying I love you is a real sweet thing— but it is more than just a gesture, or words, but it is an expression of love. Find someone who says it with the sparkle in his eyes and the burning feeling in his skin.

5. Gives you space

A real guy know he doesn’t own you, a real guy knows that the world does not revolve around him. So he will give you space, time for yourself to get your hair done, nails pampered and eyelashes fix. Find that guy!